tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1666899662235808541.post4656909648105819819..comments2023-05-08T08:40:35.443-04:00Comments on Loving Baby Girl Sofia: Decisions, decisionsTraceyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04371946159773753809noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1666899662235808541.post-20126704925361207522010-02-09T11:31:44.788-05:002010-02-09T11:31:44.788-05:00Hey girl! It's me, Tammi :) I agree with ever...Hey girl! It's me, Tammi :) I agree with everyone else. The tests are just invasive. You should trust your heart!!! Love you!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1666899662235808541.post-56967079767701743842010-02-08T15:13:12.198-05:002010-02-08T15:13:12.198-05:00Tracey I dont think I know what you should do, but...Tracey I dont think I know what you should do, but if it was me I wouldnt be terminating either do I probably wouldnt be testing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1666899662235808541.post-56065117712283538272010-02-08T14:56:17.989-05:002010-02-08T14:56:17.989-05:00I don't think any outcome will change your min...I don't think any outcome will change your mind about not terminating. I would do the less invasive test. Whatever the outcome, it will only help you prepare yourselves for your baby.Life Happenshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02302134343874268994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1666899662235808541.post-49166388145378633862010-02-08T14:23:06.730-05:002010-02-08T14:23:06.730-05:00I agree -- if you plan on bringing your baby to te...I agree -- if you plan on bringing your baby to term then I don't see the need to do the "ouchier" tests since they carry risk of losing the baby (however small). However, if you want some information the blood tests/ultrasounds could at least give you a heads up for what's to come without being invasive. It probably depends on your personality. Think about how you'd feel if you get a false positive. Would you worry too much? Or maybe knowing something is better than nothing? Definitely a hard decision, especially since every person will feel differently about it.<br /><br />I am glad all is well since you stopped the endometrin, too!quadmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17254199098599230245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1666899662235808541.post-47896835773165440112010-02-08T12:43:43.140-05:002010-02-08T12:43:43.140-05:00I agree with you. It depends on what your going to...I agree with you. It depends on what your going to do with the information. If nothing, then i don't see the point, but I would present that exact question to your dotor.Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16022175407912153277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1666899662235808541.post-9893001888519464432010-02-08T11:51:41.244-05:002010-02-08T11:51:41.244-05:00There is no way you will terminate - there is no n...There is no way you will terminate - there is no need to worry. I would not get anything done because you will love the baby no matter what!! All the testing will do is make you worry more. Love ya!Cynthiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14447211295443276063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1666899662235808541.post-69380146910488506122010-02-08T11:29:13.691-05:002010-02-08T11:29:13.691-05:00Ugh...this is tough. Like we IVFers need MORE to s...Ugh...this is tough. Like we IVFers need MORE to stress over. Just follow your heart, Mama!!<br /><br />xoxPriscillahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00548749790183329819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1666899662235808541.post-22396870400121746922010-02-08T10:33:24.538-05:002010-02-08T10:33:24.538-05:00My take on it is...if you aren't going to term...My take on it is...if you aren't going to terminate, what good does knowing do?<br /><br />You will love that baby whether or not it has downs or some other chromosomal abnormality and most of the biggie malformations can be seen on U/S.<br /><br />Just my take and what I plan on doing. Us IVF girls have enough to stress about without worrying that something is wrong with our baby!Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07940941920731395231noreply@blogger.com